Crisis in a relationship How to defeat it?

Contrary to what you think, looking at the idyllic scenes from movies or books and colorful photos on the Internet, each and every relationship at some time goes through a crisis. This is completely normal. There is no point wondering why or what you did wrong – you just have to act to solve it. The reasons for this condition may be different, but most often it results from the stage of the relationship and factors affecting it, such as work, family, etc. Remember that everything that happens around affects your mood and the temperature of your relationship.

However, we should start by saying that if you feel that your relationship is going through a crisis, you will not find a solution on the internet. It is in you and your partner. Each pair is different, and the partners know each other well and can come together to find the problem and the solution. The breakdown of the relationship is too complex a matter to give an ideal recipe for mending things. We will tell both of you today (because alone none of you can mend anything), how to look for a solution in your relationship and take the first step to overcome the crisis as a couple.

Where did the crisis come from in your relationship?

In many cases, the crisis appeared due to lack of communication or improper communication between you. We live in a world where overwhelming haste prevails and we often replace physical and emotional closeness with other media. The relationship cannot be built (and maintained) without dialogue with the Partner and openly expressing your fears and needs. So try to put aside emotions, sit down and talk. Together, determine what is the source of disagreement. Perhaps a trifle that for months and years has grown to a stone of contention.

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Maybe something large happened, which causes one of you remorse or anger? Honesty is the foundation, right next to the desire to listen. Do not raise your voice, do not interrupt yourself and, above all, do not judge the other person for what he says. The most important thing is to talk about yourself and your feelings rather than criticizing the other person or attributing his/her fault. Replace the general statements like “You neglect me” with “I feel that we do not have as much time for ourselves as we used to”.

It may also be that, like Richard Sherman from “Grass Widower” you are experiencing the crisis of the seventh year, and your relationship lacks the spark of desire that burned in the beginning. This is a completely normal situation that results from the dynamics of relationships and happens in every relationship. Instead of the initial chemistry and bodily passion there is attachment, which may lead to a decrease in the interest of the partner and treating this change as “I felt out of love”. And this is the easiest situation to solve.

Are you ready to overcome the crisis together?

It is important to answer the question whether you really want to solve the problem, or maybe to prove your Partner who is right. Mutual blame is not what you need, believe us. The easiest way is to leave the table and blame the “other side” for the failure of the relationship. Unfortunately, this approach does not lead to anything but builds a wall that has a negative impact on your relationship. Someone is guilty, loser, someone else is the winner. And the point is for you to win both. Therefore, the first step to restoring the relationship of the old spark and returning to the right track is the decision that you want to do it together. This decision must be made consciously, because it is the first step to save the relationship.

How to overcome the crisis in a relationship?

Since you already know what the problem was, you have done most of the task to determine how to fix the crisis in the relationship. If the problem delves from misunderstanding or specific events, you should determine among yourself how you want to explain them and how to act for the future. If the gap has become too big, you can always use the help of a professional adviser. We will only advise you a solution which is our specialty: how to light the spark of desire in a long-term relationship and make it as it was at the beginning when you were just beginning to date.

When was the last time you spent the weekend together in bed?

Do you still look at your Partner with the spark in your eyes?

When was the last time you could not you wait to throw off your clothes?

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Exactly. And here our love scenarios can help. We can support you with ideas and accessories, you need to devote your time and passion. This can create an unforgettable experience that will cause a blush on your face long after the weekend. How this works? In a precious box you will get instructions, an individual introduction and gadgets necessary for the experience of an erotic adventure. You only need to book from a few to a dozen or so hours and you focus only on each other.

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Exactly. And here our love scenarios can help. We can support you with ideas and accessories, you need to devote your time and passion. This can create an unforgettable experience that will cause a blush on your face long after the weekend. How this works? In a precious box you will get instructions, an individual introduction and gadgets necessary for the experience of an erotic adventure. You only need to book from a few to a dozen or so hours and you focus only on each other.

What did he teach you about the crisis in the relationship?

There are two options: either you can solve the crisis in a relationship or not. It is important to know that everything has been done to face it and not to regret it in the future. If, despite everything, it failed, it gives you the future knowledge about yourself and your needs. You know what to avoid in subsequent relationships, so as not to duplicate mistakes. However: if you succeeded, you are lucky. You are able to create a relationship that will survive the good and the bad.

Summary

We deeply believe that by joining efforts you will be able to set a plan on how to overcome the crisis in your relationship. Remember that an open and honest conversation is the first step to improving the situation. If, however, you cannot find a way together, and you believe that it is worth saving your relationship, turn to a specialist for help. Therapy for couples or consultations with a sexologist is a long way, but worth the trip if you care about solving problems you cannot cope with alone.

 

Therefore, now go away from the computers and start talking and spending time with your Partner. Allow yourself intimate moments just for two and decide how you want to rekindle feelings. Try to feel like the first time you looked at your Partners eyes with desire and remember why you fell for it. Come back to us only when you think it’s time to re-ignite the heat.

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